Sunday, March 14, 2010

The most important qualities of a good human

The value of anything in life is evaluated by its qualities. So is human. People often look down on the one that has bad qualities such as selfishness , slyness, cruelty and look up to the one that has good qualities such as sympathy , trust, honesty, integrity, tolerance….. In my opinion , a good human needs to equip his qualities at least sympathy, integrity and tolerance because these qualities will help him raise his value.
Firstly, one of the most important of all human qualities is sympathy . Because no one never once needs sympathy in his life . People really need someone by their side when they are in a stalemate .If we sympathize with them, we mean sharing their feeling of sorrow .Also, we are lending emotional support to them just by our sympathetic words or kind acts . It is really meaningful not only to them but also to us who are considered to have a heart of gold . However, in recent years, people have criticized the youth`s lack of sense of sympathy. So, we-the youth should try to help and care everyone as much as we can in order not to be criticized anymore .Remember , if we are sympathize someone, we are also sympathized one day.
Secondly, that a good human cannot help having is integrity. One person who has integrity means having honesty and goodness. More importantly, integrity is something that anyone can decide to have , rather than something with which only some fortunate people are born. However, it is not easy to have integrity in a pellmell society nowadays because most of the crimes are due to lack of integrity. If someone is considered to have integrity , he means succeeding in training himself .People with integrity generally have a sincere respect for others , besides having that sense of self-respect that integrity gives to those who have it.
Lastly, one of the most difficult of human qualities is tolerance .Because none of us never once feels angry when we are offended by others` words or acts .It is easy for us to lose control and react aggressively .But, our value will be raised if we can calm ourselves , no react and try to forget that . If we can forget that, we mean forgiving that. Also, the tolerance would give us complete peace of mind instead of nurturing feud toward that particular person. More importantly, if a person asks for forgiveness, he really means regretting and it will always be better to forgive a per son to keep us happy.
A good human requires many good qualities. However, no one is perfect. A person with sympathy, integrity, and tolerance is really good enough. We need to try our best to perfect ourselves so that our value will be raised.

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